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Light: Lavender Vines’ Bible overview.
Personals: Here are 25 things more important than the likes you get on Instagram. Fourteen people in your kid’s life that you should be thanking, but aren’t. Find your gratitude calendar, here. What to do about the mental health issues that stem from social media use.
Career: How to find a job and score that interview in this day and age. (It’s about getting past the computer/software screener).
Style: Outfit inspo. It’s cold!
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Seasonal: What to bring to Thanksgiving dinner. First idea: Indian spiced sweet potato soup, just in time for soup season from the lovely Nisha, at Rainbow Plant Life. Tablescape ideas for Thanksgiving. Ideas of what to do this November, by Camille Styles.
Beauty: Major inspiration from Violette, the queen.
Wellness: Nutritionist tips for the holidays (because we all indulge a bit more than usual). The Drybar folks are bringing us a wellness stop to add to our list. Self-care, my friends. (Coming to a city near you).
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Living: How to do a proper table setting. Just in time for the holidays. (I found the way Reese Witherspoon explains it in Whiskey in a Teacup super helpful). Love a good etiquette moment. Personality types and types of spending. Outfit ideas for the transitional weather.
Relationships: Christian couples and money.
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Weddings: Tips from a florist about what not to do.
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Beauty: The secret(s) to healthier hair.
Living: A miso soup you will keep coming back to. Gift boxes for everyone on your list (amazing gift ideas)!! Light breakfast ideas for days when you know you are going to eat a lot for dinner (like Thanksgiving). Mood boosting color for your space.
Travel: Best things to do in Montreal.
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Personals: The Bella Twins keep inspiring us, every time. They are vulnerable, hardworking, and I can’t wait to see all they conquer, next. How to practice gratitude. For those who are seeking freedom…
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Personals: Books that will inspire you in gratitude. Toxic behaviors that we can have, without necessarily being toxic people. Let’s check ourselves. How complaining rewires your brain for more negativity. A piece on equality and sexual assault.
Wellness: Thoughts from a wellness-minded entrepreneur. Everything you should know about preventing breast cancer. Embracing our relationship with our breasts. Signs that you have healed your inflammation.
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Career: Why some women are intentionally invisible at work.
Tech: Google Inbox will apparently change all of our lives.
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Wellness: Garance Dore speaks about depression and her own personal journey. Seven natural ways to boost your energy, this fall, from FloLiving. The power of a “mental health shelf“. Eight foods to relieve stress. Eight of the most common reasons women go to therapy. There is no shame in asking for help.
Personals: The books that changed our childhood (I am sure you will find one on the list that will make you sigh with nostalgia). So, it was New York Fashion Week (#NYFW). Catch up on the (street style) lewks, via Man Repeller. Let’s bring street style back, my people.
Relationships: Giving your spouse the benefit of the doubt, and how it changes everything, by Gary Thomas (marriage expert).
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Career: Healthy habits for a productive day (I loved the printable).
Beauty: A review of a revolutionary lash serum (I am intrigued).
Living: The best gifts on Amazon.
Finance: This fall, take control of your money.
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Personals: Candice Kumai in Forbes revealing the secrets to success. Things the author wished she knew before living alone. A Harvard study on happiness. The Hot Young Widows Club— have you heard of it? An interesting perspective on grief and love lasting forever.
Relationships: How to accept a compliment. Monica Gary tackling the subject of forgiveness. The truth about on-again, off-again relationships. Subtle signs of relationship abuse. (We need to talk about this more).
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Wellness: The go-to meal Jessica Biel makes when she is too tired to cook. An interesting map from the NYT that shows at what age women have their first child, by region, in the U.S. Why the annual pap smear will no longer be needed.
Living: Want to support women-owned businesses? Here is a list. Should we make our own directory of all of your businesses?
Relationships: How to leave a toxic relationship. Family friendly movies for the family night. The most romantic cities in the U.S. What happens when you ask what burdens another is carrying. Four keys to mindful parenting.
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Style: Ideas of what to wear for that fall wedding. Zara shoes for autumn. Common shopping mistakes to stop making by 30, according to The Zoe Report. Summer-to-fall transition outfits by Man Repeller.
Relationships: What you need in a friendship, based on your Myers Briggs type.
Career: Great books for career inspiration.
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So jam-packed with August goodness.
Wellness: Caffeine-free energy boosters. Candice Kumai featured in Bon Appetit. Healthy foods that may be causing you brain fog. An in-depth look at probiotics for all that ails you. More on your microbiome and hormone health. TSC on magnesium. (It’s the thing you didn’t know you needed). Treating vertigo. Vitamins for your metabolism.
Beauty: Best antioxidant serums. Breast implant illness and symptoms. An important PSA for women. We don’t talk about this enough. As many of you know, this year I transitioned to natural non-toxic deodorant. Obsessed. Here is more about it, from the nontoxic beauty queen, Alice.
Living: The most serene spot in every state. A look at Martha Stewart’s daily routine. Collective swoon for the Magnolia Hearth and Hand fall Target line. Six mindful styling tips for your home, and how to make sure your home is safe and healthy for you (people are still finding asbestos). Guest bathroom essentials.
Relationships: What will your boyfriend or girlfriend be like as a spouse? Find out how to know, here.
Career: Toxic job recovery. It’s a thing.
Travel: The Greece guide from Bec and Marissa (Twice Blessed).
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Relationships: The mindset/ tendency we can all have that is a happiness killer.
Personals: Why making the decision can be the most important thing (you actually don’t need more time).
Finance: Paying off the student loans (women of color have the most student loan debt because they are getting educated). Don’t forget to check out our finances section, for more resources. Forbes featuring how this entrepreneur is teaching millennials about finance.
Career: The guidelines for befriending colleagues. Why the right time to start is now. The “I look like a _______ (fill in profession here)” movement. Women changing the stereotypes and breaking molds. How to be a millennial manager who manages people who are older. How to stand out in a work meeting. Make your own business card (and the reasons why you should).
Style: White shirt outfit ideas that are perfect for late summer.
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Spirituality: “We are for you” by Lincoln Alabaster, the host of the Evidence of Things Screened podcast about film and faith, delivers a powerful message about waiting, your future and the truth about God’s role in all of it. You won’t be disappointed. (This is a video, but it’s available in podcast form under Church of the Advent Hope on iTunes).
Career: Are you ready to be a manager? An important assessment on what your leadership style is. Do you know yours? How to navigate the job search. (Yes, even when it gets draining). The Career Contessa is a place to start.
Living: Picnic basket menus for those late summer evenings.
Style: The fab fashion from the classic, The Parent Trap.
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Personals: Gopnik (the brilliant journalist) addresses immigration, France’s World Cup win and the strength of diversity. Stuff you can do solo in this summer heat. Explore your creativity, and be reborn.
Finances: A special feature on finance is coming, but while you wait, check out this great piece on tithing.
Relationships: Gary Thomas explores the common difference between single men and women. The legacy of the narcissist parent. LavenderVines and the 21 Day Love Challenge. You up for it? Should we do it together and report back? And lastly, clearing toxic relationships.
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Personals: Why finding your passion is the “lazy” approach to life. (Finding your purpose just got real, and surprise surprise– it’s not about being comfortable). Valuable life lessons from Hilary Kerr. How to delegate outcomes and not activities. Being Elliot on living in the present. Top Five to Thrive from the Type A Checklist.
Wellness: Food swaps you will want to try. Results you will see when you focus on gut health. The best and worst foods for breakouts. Because #solidarity. How to eat well and for health, when it’s at odds with your culture. (Like when you go vegan, and your grandmother is still trying to force-feed you chicken). The connection between gut health and insomnia.
Living: French decor tips for those of you getting ready for the next season. A little redecorating never hurt anyone. Affordable wedding dresses for the no-fuss bride. It’s wedding season. Tips for hosting a stylish summer party. Thinking about buying a home? Here is the breakdown on renting vs. buying. What we own shows who we are. This is not new, but it’s always interesting.
Happy weekend. xx
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Wellness: Six nutritionist approved snacks for when desperate times call for desperate measures.
Personals: What your Type A personality means for your health. I read this because clearly, I am Type A. How to boost your energy in these heat-drain months. Life accomplishments that are not having a baby or getting married that deserve to be celebrated. I couldn’t agree more.
Living: Spiced rice pudding recipe alert. The perfect cool-off snack. Atelier Doré takes us upstate. So much inspiration here (especially if you appreciate old world vibes). Laila Gohar and her crispy dill potatoes in the New York Times.
Happy weekend, lovelies!
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Wellness: How kombucha can help clear your skin.
Career: Ambitious people on work-life balance. This piece blew my mind. It’s very unlike anything you have ever read.
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Relationships: Dealing with contempt.
Style: How to wear a neck scarf this summer.
Podcast: Erwin McManus (pastor at Mosaic). He is on fire. Available on iTunes.
Wellness: The staple in your kitchen that is contributing to bacteria and food poisoning.
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Relationships: The mental health impact of getting married later in life.
Career: What if there were no more job interviews? This is now being considered.
Tech: My friend did a TED talk on artificial intelligence. Learn from his brilliance.
Podcast: A new gem in the audio world– the Doctor’s Farmacy.
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Podcasts: Wabi Sabi by Candice Kumai. Episode 2 was everything. She is a great storyteller, and as real as it gets.
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Wellness: A great Forbes piece on how we can use apps like My Flo (period tracker) to increase our productivity. Things to know if you quit birth control. Peganism, what it is and why it’s all the rage. Traditional Chinese medicine self care rituals. Natural remedies for cold and flu. What every woman should know about PCOS and Endo.
Travel: Must see destinations in Europe.
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Spirituality: Remember that God is a God who sees us, no matter what the circumstance.
Personals: An Honest Life Blog posted a powerful piece on loving who you are. The power of affirmations and positivity. Three shifts in thinking that can change your life. Sazan discusses the beauty of imperfection.
Relationships: How to stop others’ projections from affecting you and how to recognize it. How to stop being a defensive person. I found this piece to be fascinating. I think that when you work with difficult people often, this is a necessary skill.
Beauty: The best natural beauty products on Amazon.
Style: Stylish tips from Southern women.
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Personals: Nine habits that set the tone for the day. Next, how to stay positive around negative people. The things people can determine in about 4 seconds after meeting you. How to celebrate what I think is the best month of the year! May!!
Relationships: All about Gilmore Girls, and the fact that they were actually co-dependent. It was a fascinating piece about relationships and how they can turn unhealthy, even when they look fine at a glance.
Career: Things learned from a career coach.
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Relationships: Amanda Booth on the joys of life that she has experienced through her son’s down syndrome.
Style: The timeless outfits that we’d still wear from Rachel Green’s closet (Friends).
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Relationships: A great post on why it’s worth honoring God in your relationship.
Personals: How to stop treating life like a competition; an awesome post from The Wholehearted Woman. What to do if you are struggling with financial PTSD. A list of things they don’t teach us in school, which help us succeed.
Career: Work uniforms of successful women. How to change careers. (We are young and change is good). Mindfulness at work, for when you are praying and it all hits the fan. Other practical little tips to go along with prayer.
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Health and Wellness: Best foods for best brain function. The wonders of collagen. I have been really into facial massage, and how it can help with lymphatic drainage and stress headaches. Dining out can expose us to more hormone disruptors.
Relationships: Dealing with toxic people (how to know who is toxic and how to deal).
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Health and Wellness: The wonders of aloe (and the fact that it keeps blood sugar in check). Tips to balance your hormones. Lately, I have focused on hormone health. I can’t stress enough how important it is. The “dirty dozen” list of produce is out. Dr. Gottfried talking about how aging well has everything to do with emotional wellness.
Career: A lady boss is on the May 2018 Vogue cover: Amal Clooney.
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Relationships: Sabrina Peters and 10 things she has learned about marriage. (You will read and share this one!)
Travel: Some tips for the wanderers.
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Financials: Good debt vs. bad debt.
Living: How to entertain on a budget.
Career: How to ace your next interview.
Personals: Are money and confidence interchangeable? How iPhones impair our brains, even when we aren’t on them. (Scary). The details on gratitude. (And the type of gratitude that really makes us happier).
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Personals: A bit of humor from Garance Doré.
Relationships: All about the pit in your stomach.
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Beauty and Wellness: Sephora’s list of the best natural beauty products. Get the natural stuff, and keep racking up your points! “The Dirty Dozen,” list of endocrine disrupters. (Perfect for guiding some spring cleaning). The health benefits of collagen (going beyond skin).
Parenting: Why mom’s should embrace (not resist) their changing bodies.
Relationships: The beauty of a rebuke, and the changes it can lead to. (If you love someone, you call them out).
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Spirituality: Taking the limits off of God. (Video).
Beauty: Alice Panikian’s non-toxic beauty routine.
Food: Vegan Easter recipes. Spring, come to us!
Style: I loveee MPG’s everyday wear (especially their office stuff). It’s clean and minimalist. For every thing you buy, part goes to charity to feed a child. The quality is excellent.
Career: How millennial women are handling burnout.
Decor: Plants that will elevate any bathroom.
Parenting: All about children and their social development.
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Entertaining: Getting those high tea vibes before spring.
Financials: Lessons learned after paying off a student loan.
Career: Managing workplace conflicts.
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Health: Why fermented foods matter. Julianne Hough opens up on natural remedies and comforts for her endometriosis. The best natural makeup products, as listed by Man Repeller. All about hydration (how much water is really enough?).
Home: Five areas to keep clean in your home (that are often overlooked).
Season: 28 things to do before spring beckons us outside for warm sunshine (the snow is melting). If you find yourself dreaming of spring, Gal Meets Glam has some gorgeous colorful shots from her time in Palm Beach.
Spirituality: Why Christians are mean, and what it means (and why it needs to change).
Relationships: Ways to avoid a breakup. (Really, they are tips for a healthy relationship).
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Spirituality: Christine Caine at Passion 2018 was fire!
Personals: One of the most important questions of your life– this is a good one. An open letter to her body and period, by Garance Dore. Lena Dunham shared thoughts on motherhood after her hysterectomy (Endometriosis awareness month is coming, ladies).
Relationships: A simple tip to increase happiness. Julianne Hough on endo and married life, because #goals. Melissa Wood shared her thoughts on dropping the health snobbery and living your life (and letting your partner live his).
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The treats from the week included:
Financials: Stacy London On Her Year of Going Broke
Self-care: Our own Modern Witness Pegah O. talked about treating yourself this Valentine’s Day, with Girl & the Bay.
Personals: The dangers of perfectionism, as investigated by The Washington Post. Keep your head up, on tech ruining manners and moods. Dealing with low self-esteem, from the Man Repeller herself, Leandra Medine.
Spirituality: How God awakens us, thoughts sparked by Thomas Merton and digested by yours truly.